# Celebrations for you aren’t for you Created On: 06-18-2023 09:58 am Up:: [[Family (MOC)]] Tags:: #note/evergreen🌲 Topics:: Related:: --- Whether it is your birthday, Father’s Day, etc., don’t believe the fallacy that these are “your days”… That these days are all about you and what you want. The honest alternative is that these days should be about you in the eyes of and for the sake of others; on these days, people want to spend time with you and this is the greatest love that you can reciprocate to them in those moments: an [[Altruism|altruistic]] mindset. If we frame our mind in this fashion, we’ll make everyone’s day, not just your own. And you’ll feel an elevated sense of [[Gratitude]] for that…