# Imperatives of parenting to Lola
Created On: 05-22-2023 05:12 pm
Type: #note/evergreen🌲 #important
Topics: [[Parenting (MOC)]]
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The following are the imperatives and ideals that we strive to cast upon [[Lola]] through her upbringing:
1. Teach her about true love and model our marriage in an authentic way: our brokenness, our search for our identity, the good and the bad, and how love is never worth giving up on.
2. A sense of curiosity, dream, and adventure
3. A bias for depth and understanding herself - self-actualization, mindfulness, and being present in every moment, never taking anything for granted; living the richest life through wisdomous perspective